Marriage Doomed

It did not start that way. There was a time when you were either deeply in love. During mating rituals and dating, we tend to overlook the faults of others. Actually, I thought they were sweet. The way he moved about the small things and had sulky expression. The way she looked at your pathetic jokes with sexual overtones. Or, if you fart in public and tried to claim, you have not noticed. Or the mysterious eyes of other men's butts.Everything has been moved to the next inevitable step was ignored. They pulled together.

Some of the problems right now getting worse. His snoring was sometimes exasperating. The way they have never washed the dishes. He left his clothes on the floor. It 'was a terrible pilot. He was a terrible pilot. But you were in love, and rarely brought the missteps. And 'being just who they were and some of its captivating personality. Then about a year later, it was decided for both parties to get everythingLegal. The big wedding was planned and your family and friends were thrilled. Sure, they had very little has been said about the different characteristics, even if "weird" than expected. Only the closest friends, perhaps. But he presumed that it was not bad enough to prevent the marriage.

So the big day came and went. The honeymoon in Cancun, in the coming year with excitement and exploration. The new child. Yes, life was good. Sorta. It was found that the proud papawas not as great as in the diaper change and is around kids. Instead, he found excuses to go to work early and stay later. He farted yet gone terribly, and said, disgusting, off-color jokes. It 'been a terrible housekeeper and not a very good cook. But then again, that was the same before marriage. And 'now two years later and nothing has changed.

Well, almost nothing. Another child is now on its way and it is open season on each other. The allegations arestarted. He is Ragginger on her because they have to work, and expects to do the housework when she gets home. How are your clothes and cleaning the garage, so they can at least park the car in it. She is crying for him to go to the store from time to time, but all day at home and still can not clean or do laundry. Could the child once in a while? Could have sex once in a while? Is your mother always arrive unannounced to "You have a brotheralways some bum money?

Realize that the elements of the ultimate measure only the continuation of what life was like when he had an apartment together before marriage. So let's fast forward for the fifth year. The children are now 4 years and 3 years. He is currently working on Saturdays to make more money because they spend in a turned-aholic. Is ordered to QVC and HSN hooked. He won fifty pounds and to order Pizza Hut for dinner three days a week hooked. He comes home and gets onComputer for hours, playing online poker. Rarely speak, children left to themselves. Sex is a region almost unknown, and have completely different schedules sleep and wakefulness. Any guess where this is going?

The sad part is that it will. Many of the disorders could be treated early. must be, otherwise, should be a year of cohabitation showed that this association was not. They could have separated and removed with theirDignity and bank accounts left in tact. But now, if there is a divorce, there are many adverse effects. The children suffer, finances will be a wreck the whole social structure of households will be connected to pieces, and nobody wins.

There is a moral of this story? Of course, otherwise I would have written. A leopard can not change its spots. Or in other words, people start a relationship, what are they and what will be. Years later,Sporting a wedding ring will be the same person with the same habits. If you could barely stand it as a date, expect to live with them full time. This is a disaster waiting to happen. If he realized that love was not enough to overcome the myriad of bad habits, you should run for the nearest exit, while having the chance. Let this serve as a warning to all you couples. Love does not conquer all, only in the movies. And believe me, your life is not yet ready forBig screen.